Answashe87
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I have a aluminum chain flogger…purple chain with a leather suede handle. (Toymaker deceased). I have used it several times on some hard core masochists. The other use is putting in dry ice or the freezer, then dragging it over the body after its red and sore. Oh, and I surprise ’em with it.
Use 1″ wide hook and eye loops I.E. Velcro strips. They make ones that are used to wrap bundles of cable and wire. Available at your local hardware store most likely. Perhaps radio shack.
This wasn’t the first first, since I tied up babysitters and such as a child. However, this was the first REAL feeling bondage thing.
I went over to my girlfriends house with a sack of rope and some tape that I had. However I left it in the car instead taking a roll of medical tape with me hidden in my sock under my jeans. We watched tv for a time and when she went to the bathroom I put the plan in action. I got the bag from the car and then hid in the guest bedroom next to the bathroom. She finished up and then left. I then ran up behind her, grabed her right arm and pulled it behind her while pushing right foot into the back of her knee, thus knocking her to the ground. I then twisted her arm until she gave me the left on and having a firm hold of them both I pulled the tape out and taped her wrists together. Then taped her knees together and then her feet. From there It was easy enough to drag her to her room. She had a four post bed with a metal head board and the plan was to tie her to it. (So yes there was pre planning on my part)
Putting her onto the bed I then used tape from the bag to tie her elbows together loosely, then I freed her wrists and through much struggling was able to get her wrists infront of her and tie them loosly, at this point I cut the tape and then tied her wrists much better. Then I tied them to the head board with the knots well out of reach. Her legs were easier, having the knees tied I made my rope cuff tie (french bowline will do) on her ankles and had them loosly tied to the ends of the foot board which once the tape was cut on the knees was easily tightened to keep them apart. From there play time could and did begin.
Important things, we knew eachother for awhile before this and I knew she was okay wiith it. I was top but wouldn’t say dom, and because her shouting stop really would have worked we didn’t have an offical safeword… This was sorta a test thing for us so things were slow and honestly there was a good deal of talk while everything was happening. Aaaannnd finally, I had safety sissors. Also my rope was solid braid nylon at… 1/4th in I belive.
Anything else you want to know, just ask.
flogging is all what you make of it. It can be sensual or it can be painful. My suggestion is to start of slow, and with light strokes to get the feel of the sensations. Like myself I have over 20 of them from super light, to heavy. When working with someone who has never been flogged before, I always use my light one’s. And I swing softly, in slow figure 8’s so they can get the feel of them. Make sure you get warmed about a good long time as well, intensity can be built up over a period of time.
I prefer not to use such terms but rather call people by their current roles in my life.
Like this … X is my co-writer and boyfriend, Y is my husband and we own property together, etc. Who’s primary? Primary in what regard??? Y is primary when it comes to helping me decide kitchen renos, X when it comes to plot-lines, Y when it comes to decisions about electronics, X when I want to talk about social issues etc. etc. other people I’m not even in romantic/sexual relationships with are primary in other ways.
Let the chips fall where they may …
