Bressibity
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I know as top, I like to have music available. I think variety is important as long as it maintains a good “energy” level. That does NOT always mean a rapid beat. You do need to quieter elements splattered in there on occasion.
I tend toward symphonic/progressive metal with a sprinkling of industrial/house. This would be great for rough play, impact play, predicament play, and a good variety of rope play, etc. where you want to maintain energy levels
If you wanted to go to a more sensual feel, you could go more acoustic or new age for senual play, other types of rope play and environments where you are enhancing the more languid aspects to the scene you are creating.If you have friends in your local community, ask for volunteers. There could be some people who would be delighted to offer that service to you, and you’d get better feedback from a person than from a pillow.
You aren’t likely to injure someone with a flogger, at least not beyond the body’s ability to heal itself.
I too second the bed frame idea. Have you looked at getting anything like a bed bondage setup. Pretty simple, easy to hide, and fairly inexpensive.
What a question!
Well, it all depends …..
Firstly and above all your rope must have a breaking strain fit for its purpose. If it is to be load bearing, it must have a breaking hugely in excess of any anticipated load.
Secondly, the rope must feel comfortable to use.
If you use poly rope it should not feel rough – the rougher it is the more likely to incur rope burns if it slides over skin. All poly ropes are more susceptible to causing friction burns.
For general purpose “just tying up” I would probably suggest you start with a few lengths of natural hemp 6mm rope. Natural hemp has a nice feel, is generally relatively smooth and less susceptible to causing any rope burns. Depending on the ties you will want a selection of lengths. 10m for complex ties and shorter for more general use.
Make sure you have something handy to cut the ropes in an emergency and make sure you know a good range of suitable knots remembering that where there is a loop around a body part it should not become more constricted under tension.
Listen to the sub – they will know when it becomes “too much”; “painful” and potentially dangerous.
Keep googling as well – there is a lot of good advice out there (and some poor advice… be warned)
