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#4 – I don’t whip a man to “improve” him. I am applying the whip because he enjoys receiving pain and I enjoy inflicting it. Also, as a sadist, I don’t know if I’m especially “kind” while doing so; that likely depends on your viewpoint. I do agree with not playing while angry, though.
FIRST, VERY FIRST ITEM, BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE – purchase a set of EMT Sheers.
Those scissors that can cut a penny in half. You can find them in any Pharmacy. Keep them close and handy. If you sense discomfort at all, USE THEM and get your model loose. Remember, a cut rope can be replaced. Nerve damage can be forever.
Watch where you put the ropes and how tightly. STAY AWAY FROM THE NECK, UNDER ARMS, INSIDE THE CROTCH. Touch your models finger tips, toes etc. Check skin warmth and color often. KEEP IN CONTACT VERBALLY.
A good rule, if you ask “Is everything OK?” and the answer is “I’ll be alright”, that means there is something wrong that your model is trying to tough out. If your models answer indicates distress, stop and find out where the discomfort is and FIX IT or STOP.
Remember, this can be very dangerous and it should be treated with the proper respect and forthought.
OK, my Rope Safety PSA is done.
Now, on to the fun.My first rope was from Lowes and it is still my basic choice for all work. I now own several hundred feet of this stuff:
Lehigh 3/8-in x 50-ft White Twisted Nylon Rope
Item #: 349205 | Model #: 071514002842Twisted nylon is soft enough for virgin skin and very flexible.
Then I’d suggest looking on YouTube for Two Knotty Boys demo of the DragonFly Sleeve
Google “The Dragonfly Sleeve by TKB – YouTube”
Also, check the ‘Stickies’ at the top of the group for more info.
Have fun.
I took my first aerial yoga class yesterday and really enjoyed it. I did find some of the movements painful until I adjusted the fabric – so comments above about the fabric bunching in a “bad way” need to be addressed if you are attempting a comfortable suspension.
I’m in the process of shopping for fabric now. My instructor recommended Aircat. I’m waiting to hear back about length needed based on ceiling height. I used to rock climb so I have the hardware and rigging technique covered.
The most difficult decision is color! LOL.
Work out bench, great points adjustible angle vanila uses.
abroller can be used in creative ways.
bar stools give a lot of good tie down points.Sometimes “primary” and “secondary” are the only appropriate terms. My lover is a married man, and his wife is a cuckquean.
She will always come first, and I will never rise above second. Not only are we all comfortable with this arrangement, but it helps keep things simple and clear.
And as a Kept Woman, being secondary to your lover can be extremely arousing.
For more about what I mean, visit my blog. http://KeptClose.blogspot.com/
Secondary isn’t always a negative thing. Being secondary can be beautiful.
