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Often times I find myself flogging in a venue I can’t play music, but when I can.. I have a playlist on my ipod that has a mixture of dance/techno (the only time I ever listen to it) and various rock/metal/industrial songs. With the second group, I tend to strip out the lyrics just so it doesn’t take away from the scene, or to cause unnecessary associations between the song and the flogging. For the recon, yes that has happened. I have a sub that has told me that he cannot hear “Let the bodies hit the floor” without having a bit of a flashback to our session (he said it was awesome).
Any kind of session is good for stress as it creates a more immediate stress. Being flogged puts stress on you as in pain, possibly embarrassment (depending on the condition), discomfort. This stress overrides all other stresses going on. When this stress stops, and the endorphins are flowing, all other stresses go away as well.
This is why I love this. I do and teach meditation, and it is good for stress, and keeping stress away. But if one is stressed, it is hard to get down and meditate.
Flogging immediately takes your attention away from your problems by giving you new, immediate problems. Once it is over, the other problems while not going away permanently, weigh a lot less on you.
Any time, darling!
Here’s a harness tied with the kind of dildo that has balls, and it looks simple.
I do a thing when I’m crocheting, where I make a loop by wrapping the cord around the crochet hook a few times, and then crochet over it. Maybe you could make a ring of the proper size by looping some cord, probably shoe lace sized cord, and doing half hitches over it. It sounds like a lot of fun, for a rope person!
I’ve always made a thong style harness to hold toys in
I haven’t found the thong style rope harness for toys to be too constricting in the penis area, however I’m usually doing such things with rope lovers.
Do you want it to be entirely made of rope, or would you use a cock ring in it? It should be easy, and quick, with a cock ring as a central attachment point. You could use the rope to follow either the thong style, or the under-the-bum style of strap-on harness.
I ran into the same sort of venting issues with the 2.0. The problem is that the lower edge is flatter than the smaller plugs, and forms a more effective seal.
The short term fix is to reach around now and then and rock the handle back up towards your tailbone to break the seal.
And I’m happy to report that with plenty of practice you can get enough awareness and control/relaxation there to be able to vent naturally. So keep at it, 2.0 fans 🙂
I dont much care for the terms but I understand their use in establishing a commonly easily understandable concise method of communicating meaning regarding something which can be complex to convey using other terms such as partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover etc.
I think my objection comes from the value which seems to go with the terms; that primary is more important and secondary sounds like some kind of afterthought. My relationship in a triad is not an equal one. In that they are married to each other, live together and although we share each other, enjoy shared time and intimacy together, I am very much separate to their unit together. However I don’t consider myself secondary in terms of value. Our relationship with each other as individuals is different and different again from our relationship together as a three.
