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There are several varieties of “Chain” floggers and just like the difference between suede/leather/rubber each style of chain will feel a bit different. Just like other floggers it is based on the size (width/diameter/thickness) of the chain, the style of chain (beaded vs. weave/link/maille) and number of falls overall weight.
My advice is to practice and see how the falls fly/spread then start very lightly and slowly.
I agree with everyone, I- bolts are the way to go. We have 1 at each corner of the bed. For convenience we have ankle and wrist cuffs with heavy duty carabiner clips to attach to the I-bolts… Either directly or indirectly, with a chain or rope. Chains are louder but with a clip at each end there’s no knots required and you could clip at any link in the chain for adjustable length. We also use multiple pairs of handcuffs to tether me to the bar(s) on the headboard and/or footboard.
Hope that helps. The Internet is always a source of infinite inspiration. Save a bunch of pics with elements you like, and make the end result a unique design incorporating all the features you want, and none of the features you don’t. That’s what we did. 🙂 good luck and have fun!
I was first bound to a tree as a child while playing a game with some friends so maybe that’s where this interest developed :). My first sensual bondage experience however consisted of a pair of furry cuffs in which I was cuffed to the bed and dealt with accordingly. I love not being able to escape and bondage heightens the sexual experience for me. Now rope is my choice for being bound, however I do miss those furry cuffs from time to time.
Being flogged is quite possibly my favorite thing in the hole world. seriously.
I have an adorable (actually didn’t cost a fortune), heavy, soft suade flogger; I think about 40 falls/tails, long enough to work; short enough for it to be easily handled by Sir, or Ma’am.
Back, bottom, thighs, when I’m bound down on the bed; or not restrained, starting gently… not just ‘flogging’ with it; being caressed across my skin too… takes about five minutes and I’m already in a very submissive place in my head, then increased in intensity… harder, but thuddy, and, I’m starting to bliss out… and just want more… harder still, getting some sting, and lots of thud, quick succession of ‘strikes, some longer gaps… moving about in different locations on me… I find it so relaxing, because of how my mind can just go so deep into submission (not even talking about subspace yet), and then, if Sir/Ma’am wants, moving on to harder flogging, or changing to paddle, etc, and the subspace can start to loom on the horizon…
We’ve also a lot smaller overly painful one, which is sort of harder leather, and really less good; being smaller you’d think it hurt less…. oh no, that’s got quite a sting… sometimes Sir will use that one me, when he sees I’m blissing out a lot; sometimes he’ll use some sting from that smaller flogger (or a cane), to almost ‘bring me back’, If I’m shooting off into lala land too quickly (afterall I can become quite usefless to serve his needs, if I’m so blissed out I’m the equavelent of on a drug-high)…
Ahh. yes, I rather like floggers; experiment and try… its the only way; I’ve rarely found them truely painful (not at all like caning, having a crop used, or a serious paddling etc)
