Priblefulth1985
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The S3 (Serenity Suspension System) is a great portable frame. I know the guy who distributes them has had a crazy year, and I’m not sure what availability would be, but it would definitely be worth contacting him through his website and inquiring. I do know that the website hasn’t been updated in a while due to the crazy year he’s had.
I had my love/sub tied to chair once when the phone rang.
I removed her gag and let her talk as it was a police officer that was calling regarding a non kink related situation lol. The whole time she remained tied tightly to the chair.
Fun times.Of course, safety takes a priority, but checking in on the sub is a must.
I’m imagining if the sub where a man and the dom a woman, she could wear a skirt or dress with no panties and maybe get a quickie while company is over.
If the sub were a woman, the dom could leave her with a remote controlled vibrator in place and play with the remote while else where in the house, if the remote was powerful enough anyway.
I suggest finding a maker in your area, or other talking with friends about who they recommend. An awful lot of online stuff is poor quality and/or expensive. Custom makers like myself put quality materials and invest time into the item to assure quality. Some of us even offer lifetime warranties on workmanship.
Yep that’s the line alright. If you’re going to keep it all about the physical sex you need to do just that. You can’t have long conversations and get all hot and steamy all day long. If you’re spending hours connecting with the new guy and not with your husband it’s no wonder your connection is shifting. It matches your attention. Now there isn’t much wrong with having that emotional connection as long as your husband is ok with it. That is the difference between swinging and polyamory. Have you shared all this with your husband yet? Not doing so crosses the line between Polyamory and cheating. Maybe your husbands reaction will surprise you. Maybe he will step up his game at home or maybe he’ll be really happy for you.
I’ve always found that exclusion is the best way isolate someone. Lol Isolated lovers don’t stay that way for long (stay lovers that is). Best bet is to talk with him tell him how much you need him and this guy while nice is a poor replacement for the man you love. Let him know you understand that he can’t do what you both really want/need because of his injury but you’d like him to be involved some how. What ever way he’s comfortable with. Maybe he will want to know all the details or want to take pictures of it. By integrating him in a way you’re all comfortable with and having open communication you can foster a healthy new reality where you satisfy your needs and express love and respect for your ailing husband.
Hope that helps.
