Racclut
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My favourite to use is bruiser (so called because he is black and blue)
4sq foot of soft 4oz calf leather, cut 24″ long and 1″ wide.He is pretty much an all purpose flogger and is loved by everyone I have used him on. Big, heavy and thuddy, what’s not to like?
And yes I assign names and genders to floggers, so that I remember which one a customer is talking about.
I tend to use a big “forehand/backhand swing for power, but mix it up a lot during the course of a scene depends on who I am flogging and what they like and want.while you looking for a rigger to work with spend some time looking up rope saftey. asking questions about protecting yourself. Rope groups will teach you saftey but its always good to get a head start. a bunny needs to know if her rigger is making mistakes. it does not mean the rigger is a bad person. anyone can make a mistake.
I’ve been a swinger for almost ten years, and am new to the kink side of things. We like to go to one of the local swing clubs sometimes, but we prefer house parties because it’s a bit more intimate but still possibility for a lot of action. I’d suggest joining a swinger site (we use SLS) and seeing what’s around you. Some people will be comfortable playing on the 1st date, some will want to meet and talk for awhile first. Find out what you are comfortable with as a couple, then let other potential couples know as well. Some reserve kissing only for their partners because it is felt as more intimate than sex. Some couples may play separately, others may only play together. Just like with kink play, you just wanna have your rules and boundaries set up in advance.
There’s an understood rule in swinging, “no means no and don’t ask why” (because you may not want to know) Basically if you don’t want to play with someone, just politely say no thanks.
Swing clubs can get a little expensive in some places, but it’s a good way to get to know people. Also, make sure you’re clear on poly issues. Most swingers I know are not poly. The usual rule in the circles I’ve tread is “if you start to have feelings, it’s time to stop seeing that couple/person.” So if you are poly, it’s ok to tell a potential swing partner so, but don’t expect they’ll necessarily want to date.
It’s a fun thing, but it’s not for everyone. If you get into it and don’t like it, it’s no biggie. 🙂Many things effect the feel of leather and there is a big difference between leather and suede, while the width the falls are cut at is a factor so is the weight of the hide and type of suede/leather(cow, calf, lamb, bison, elk, etc.).
If you look through the makers listed in the sticky and see a photo you like perhaps you could ask them for a sample of the material to be mailed to you. I know I have/do send material samples it is very hard to judge the weight/thickness/stiffness/color from a photo sometimes.
Would love to have more descrete tools and restraints. Never know when family may stop by and not so easy to find a place to put tools and restrains away. Ultimately it would depend on the style of the furniture and price. My advise, post a picture of the prototype and asking price and go from there.
