Saidin

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  • in reply to: An alternative to box ties, arms crossed at the front? #3018
    Saidin
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    her shoulders really don’t like her arms being tied behind her back for more than a few minutes
    If you can tie a Takatekote then you can certainly construct a Takatekote in the front. The principles of the tie are exactly the same with the exception that it is done with the arms crossed to the front. You simply have to be mindful of her breasts. 😉

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    in reply to: I am new to the swinging thing #2634
    Saidin
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    #1 rule: COMMUNICATION
    #2 – MORE COMMUNICATION
    #3 – have some sort of “safe words” or “gesture” or something to be able to pull the eject handle in ANY situation. then pull yourselves away and COMMUNICATE as to what happened – why you ejected yourselves, etc….
    #4 – did i mention COMMUNICATION?

    know that even my b/f & myself after 4 years still have rules & change them. we do this with ease due to communication. what once was a hard limit before – may not be today, or in the future…..

    xoxoxoxo

    in reply to: Flogging Etiquette #2573
    Saidin
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    I have certain floggers I use only on my slave and many others that are “communal”. I have enough that I can hang used ones up for a month or so to air out to avoid possible BBP transmission.

    What you are asking is correct though. Leather can absorb anything on the skin or under it if the skin is broken.

    in reply to: Discrete BDSM Furniture #2489
    Saidin
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    I’m eager to learn more, but conversation about this useful piece of furniture seems to have died. I have a (locked) dedicated room in my house, but I would like a convertible piece like this in the bedroom when play is best handled there.

    in reply to: *Stickied* Primary & Secondary Relationships #2190
    Saidin
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    I have not used those terms but realistically that is what the relationships were all about. Both relations were where she pursued others on a regular basis, in other words each of my marriages were that way where she/they could date men as they wished. I chose not to date others but still had some liaisons where me and certain men would engage in adventures, so that is why I am saying we had primary (each one of us was our primary) and secondary relationships were where she exercised her right for extra marital (what some would call them) relationships. We both enjoyed the fact we were not indulging in situations where we had to hide things from the other or lie one to the other. I hope this helps in the discussion.

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