Thedidismind
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I would recommend a mixed fall flogger. They have the most versatility, well balanced and preferred by most- experienced and new. with elk and a dense cow hide. The cow falls can be cut slightly shorter to reduce sting or opposite to increase.
I may be able to further assist you in regards to what sensations you may enjoy more than others. I performed a study over the past year to see how people feel stimulation differently than one another. This helped me learn how people explain a sensation or what simple sensation feels like to them to further help me tell what type of flogger they would probably prefer.
Feel free to send me a private message at any time if you have any more questions.
Welcome to our addictive world of flogging! LolI tried it on today and I found the s/m a bit baggy on me, and my partner whos a size M UK Male was able to fit into it, but feels that a larger size would be better for him.
I got a few pictures and things and should be able to write my review soonish.
it seems ok quality. I feel it allows too much movement, compared to the amount of restriction I wanted from it anyway. The lower strap also comes undone easily.
But I’ll go into more detail in my review.
HMMMMMMM i all ways fantasized about being tied up will other people were in the next room having a party. and when the first person had me tied and gagged ,then he or she brings in all the rest of the party and they judge, then the door is close and that person get to tease me, when he or she is finish , then the nest person and t hen the nest and then the next, but they can knot tie me in the same position , the winner gets to t take me home for the night of bondage ect ect ect
omg if only that came true. some one please make that come trus.
yours in bondageAhh, i understand. You might want to look up cat-o-nine tails and canes. Cat-o-nine tails are simular to floggers but less straps and more cable like. I havent tried those yet, thats on my to do list. Lol good luck on your search! Sounds like alot of fun!
I met back up with a vanilla friend/co-worker I hadn’t seen in years at a swinger party and exchanged numbers. It quickly turned from old friends catching up to thousands of texts a day and quickly developed into a relationship of it’s own. My husband and his wife weren’t comfortable with it (understandably) and we tried at least 5 times ver the corse of 3 years to cut eachother out. We just couldn’t give each other up because the connection became too strong. Fast forward a few years and we’re both divorced and living together. I’m not saying your situation is the same but I remember flat out lying to myself and others by saying that it wasn’t that serious.
My advice would be to be honest 1st and foremost with yourself (because that’s who it seems like you’re deceiving right now), and then with your husband. I don’t know how it will work out for you but it’s got to be better and healthier than years of lies and mistrust.For me it is important to let the 3rd person know that they are getting into a “Secondary” relationship to be sure it is what they want. My “Primary” relationship is a very involved one and we have major and minor life decisions that we make together, they may sometimes affect our “Secondary” but they are our decisions to make between the two of us. Why would we want to add any stress to our “Secondary” relationship, I think “Secondaries” should be more about enjoying life simply
